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The ICE programme that showed me what kind of leader I want to be

Date
17 March 2025

Professor Priti Parikh gained a renewed sense of purpose and confidence after taking part in this ICE initiative.

The ICE programme that showed me what kind of leader I want to be
Professor Priti Parikh shares that empathetic leadership allows us to make tough decisions.

Back in May 2023, I participated in the ICE's Developing Leaders programme with Windsor Leadership.

This brought together some of the top minds in civil engineering and construction, with the aim of enabling and influencing leadership across the profession.

The programme came at a perfect time, as I’d just accepted a four-month leadership position while a colleague was on sabbatical. I was also looking into the big question of values and culture in my organisation.

At Windsor, my group listened to the challenges I was facing, offered suggestions and questioned why I was only looking at the job in the short-term.

Reaching higher

As it happens, they were very timely questions, as when I returned to work the dean of the faculty invited me to continue in the post for another six months.

Six months later, the role was then advertised as a permanent position, and I was invited to apply.

This was something I never would've contemplated pre-Windsor. My group and my facilitator had given me the confidence and belief to aim higher.

Three years later, I’m still in that post and lead over 100 staff and 600 students.

Experiencing personal transformation

The ICE programme with Windsor Leadership was absolutely transformational for me.

It provided a reflective space away from the day-to-day work environment, allowing me to engage deeply with peers facing similar challenges.

The unique setting at Windsor facilitated this transformation, helping me to step back, reflect, and return with a renewed sense of purpose and confidence.

When we met for the second part of the programme, I was more confident, far less hesitant and was owning my new role. There was a visible difference in my whole demeanour.

Understanding the importance of values

For me, a key takeaway from the programme was the importance of values and culture change across organisations.

The topic was a common thread that ran through our conversations, and it gave me fresh motivation and energy to ensure I focussed on making my department even more inclusive.

The programme also emphasised how empathetic leadership is good leadership.

It demonstrated how it can also allow for tough decisions to be made, and this is something I’ve been trying to show within my leadership.

A key part of this has been investing time and energy in onboarding new colleagues and sharing our vision and strategy with the wider team. When colleagues understand, adopt and own the vision, they are more willing to take things forward.

Impact of the programme

Since taking part in the programme, my professional responsibilities have expanded significantly.

As well as overseeing a department of 100 staff and 600 students, I’m serving as an ICE trustee and have positions on two other boards.

The Windsor Leadership programme was undoubtedly a turning point in my professional journey.

It provided me with the tools, insights, and support to navigate and embrace a significant leadership role in civil engineering.

As well as shaping me as a leader, it provided lasting connections and a supportive network that continues to influence my professional life.

If you're interested in joining the ICE Windsor Leadership Programme, contact Natasha Davies, ICE knowledge services manager.

  • Prof Priti Parikh director and professor of infrastructure engineering and international development at Bartlett School of Sustainable Construction, UCL